My Family’s Pepper Steak

My Family's Pepper Steak | Big Girls Small Kitchen

From the start, homemade food figured in my parents’ relationship. This pepper steak was, I just learned from my mom when she told me the proportions for the recipe, the first dish my dad cooked for her. She’s told me more often about the cooking projects they loved to take on, like a mushroom soup whose steps somehow occupied an entire day.

“There is nothing like a home-cooked dinner,” was a refrain, in actions and words, in our house. Sure, restaurants weren’t quite as good then as they are now, neither were prepared foods, and for most dishes there was no competition. We kids sometimes begged for pizza, and sometimes we got McDonald’s hash browns for breakfast, but the homemade pizza and homemade French fries beat them both. For a change, it wasn’t a stretch to think that parents were right. The homemade food was best.

That mindset, more than our passed-down recipes for matzoh ball soup, oil-based plum cake, or fried Cheerios, is my culinary inheritance.

Pepper steak’s actual culinary heritage is in the increasing American affection with Chinese food in the 19th and 20th centuries, brought about by Chinese restaurant cooks who danced around American’s tastes for adventure in their meals, simultaneously expanding eaters’ palates with dishes from across the world and tweaking those dishes to be sweeter and saucier than they were back in China. Today, you might think a dish like pepper steak would seem a throwback to those chop suey days. But really, this one stands the test of time: the sauce is minimal and not gloppy, and the vegetables are plentiful.

What’s more, because your pepper steak shopping list includes only steak and three peppers (if you have a pantry stocked with onions, soy sauce, sugar, and cornstarch), this Chinese-American dish is a home-cooking habit enforcer, the kind of dinner you can easily make on a weeknight, then take one bite of and say, “There’s nothing like a home-cooked dinner.”

In a series of videos called “The Butcher, The Baker, and The Belgian Beer Maker,” Stella Artois–this post’s sponsor–has explored three women in craft embracing their own heritage and tradition in their work today. I really loved “The Butcher” video – it’s about Cara Nicoletti (great name!), a butcher at Brooklyn’s The Meat Hook, and a third generation butcher. You can watch the whole series, starting with “The Butcher,” here.

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My Family's Pepper Steak
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Serves: 2, with leftovers
Flank, hanger, and top round steak also work here. Pepper steak is perfect with a cold beer!
  • Neutral oil (olive oil is okay here too)
  • ¾ pound skirt steak, cut into ¼-inch thick slices against the grain
  • Salt
  • 3 peppers, various colors, sliced
  • 2 medium onions, sliced
  • 2 tablespoons soy sauce
  • 2 teaspoons cornstarch
  • 1 tablespoon sugar
  • ½ teaspoon rice wine vinegar
  • Cooked white or brown rice for serving
  1. Heat a large skillet or wok over high heat for 5 minutes.
  2. While the pan is heating, combine the soy sauce, cornstarch, and sugar in a small bowl and set the sauce aside.
  3. Pour about 2 tablespoons of oil into the hot pan--enough to generously coat the surface. Immediately throw in the steak (it'll splatter), and leave for about 2 minutes to form a crust on each slice of steak. Sprinkle with salt, then stir fry to brown the steak on all sides, another 1 to 2 minutes.
  4. Push the meat to the side and add the onions. Cook for 3 minutes, stirring only occasionally. Sprinkle with salt, then add the peppers, and stir everything back together, then cook for 8 to 10 more minutes, until the vegetables have reduced and the onions have turned nicely brown, and even quite dark in places. Says mom "I love how they taste when they get a little burnt/caramelized with the soy sauce." Add the sauce and turn off the heat. Toss to combine. Drizzle with the rice wine vinegar, toss again, taste for salt, and serve.


  • caitlin

    Great-looking recipe!

  • Heathbar

    Just watched the films, ha ha, the less said about the beer one the better….

    • BGSK


  • Heathbar

    Meant to say that this recipe looks very easy and delicious, especially considering I haven’t ever made pepper steak before. I subscribe to Cara Nicoletti’s blog, and really enjoy it and you’re right, her film was wonderful.

  • Millie l Add A Little

    Looks fantastic! I love a good old steak sometimes!

  • Sarah Derrig

    I’ve been looking for a great stir-fry recipe. This sounds great. Thanks!

  • Jiva Dimova

    Great dish… just made it for dinner, will make it again :)… One question though… my steak stir fry did not turn as saucy as yours looks on the pictures. Any idea why?

    • BGSK

      Hm, maybe my peppers gave off more water? Or your pan was hotter? Either way, next time you can add 1/4 to 1/2 cup of wine, water, or even beer to the soy sauce mixture before it goes in the pan. It’ll thicken but leave you with more sauce. Glad you enjoyed!

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