In This Small Kitchen: Baking for Colleagues

Posted by on Friday Apr 12th, 2013 | Print

In college, I was interviewing for a summer job at the travel publisher Let’s Go when the editors seemed about to wrap up our meeting. Before I got up to leave, they had one more question for me. “If we hire you,” they said, “what will you be remembered for around the office?”

“My tendency to bring in homemade sweets,” I said, thinking, perhaps, of my Toasted Oatmeal Pecan Scones.

Clever as it was, my response might have been bad for my career, according to one of the other coders in a recent Skillcrush HTML/CSS course I took.

One Friday during the online course, we were exchanging emails about the best career advice we’d ever gotten. I was surprised by the tip this other student had received.

“My mentor once told me, ‘Dear, don’t bake,’” she wrote.

Here’s the backstory:

“[The mentor] came up in the 1960s at this all-male magazine. She really was a pioneer, and was one of our first female senior editors. I think what she meant was that the guys in charge are all too eager to dismiss you because you are a woman. You don’t need to remind them with cookies. Let them think about your excellent work, not your excellent recipes, when they think of you…Either that or my cookies really sucked.”

That summer at Let’s Go, I baked everything in my apartment into cookies, especially as our deadline neared. (Granola cookies, anyone?) We got Let’s Go: Europe finished, and I got a job there again the next summer. Since then, I’ve baked at least once at every job or internship I’ve had.

But this advice made me wonder if baking can cause pigeonholing, in spite of the affectionate (or hungry) visits to your cubicle that homemade cookies may bring. So I was curious, do you bring sweets to work or steer clear of toting baked goods to the office?

P.S. Cookies for your colleagues, if you do decide to bake.

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  • http://kristinapp.tumblr.com Kristin Appenbrink

    I was given this advice once, too. But I think it depends a lot on what your position is and where you work. I was told never to bring in baked goods for bosses when I was an assistant, but in my role now I’m perfectly fine bringing in baked goods or ice cream since my colleagues do the same thing.

  • http://twitter.com/FoodologieKarla Karla

    This is really interesting. I definitely bring baked goods to work a few times a month. But in an interview this is an excellent point.

    It’s a shame that something I thoroughly enjoy reinforces gender stereotypes.

  • scunningham

    My experience, as someone who’s worked in engineering and software for nearly 20 years:

    It’s not really about whether or not you bake. It’s about your work and being a good person to work with. Turns out that people who bake are quite often pretty great to work with.

    I used to work with a woman who made it a point to bake a cake for everyone’s birthday in our small office. She was great at her job, too. Now, I keep a candy jar at my desk and it’s served me well. People stop by, grab a Peppermint Patty, say hi and move on. It’s great when I finally work on projects with people because they already know me from their stops by my candy jar.

    I think of baked goods or candy as an icebreaker - a great way to stop and get to know people without having to wait until you’re assigned to work together. it’s not appropriate in all jobs, or for all people. But I’m pretty sure bringing a batch of cookies for the office break room has never stopped anyone from making it to the corner office. Ever.

    The world needs bakers and the eaters (aka the non-bakers). Room for all!

  • Keisenpress

    I got a job offer from an internship if I promised to keep baking!

  • Cate

    Super interesting… I’ve never once even thought about that sort of thing. I’m pretty much the only person in my office who bakes and it’s a great way to get rid of tempting leftovers when I’m trying out new recipes. Hopefully it hasn’t hurt me career-wise!

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      Yes - office eaters play an important role too - see scunningham’s comment above. Much better than you eating all the leftovers yourself. Thanks for sharing!

  • http://aweekfromthursday.com/ heidi

    I always bring baked goods to work. I think it shows I’m well-rounded, that I have hobbies.

    I can’t bake too often for my coworkers, I work with too many women who are healthy eaters.

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      I didn’t even think of that, Heidi. It’s the worst when you’ve brought in something delicious and gooey and everyone says they’re on a diet.

  • http://hellobougeotte.blogspot.com/ megan

    This is a great question! I personally would bake for coworkers, but only after I’ve established myself as a professional. I want to be known for the quality of my work (the work I was hired to do) and after that, if I can be more awesome (and less round) by sharing some of my baked treats then that’s ok.

  • Gretchen Walkup

    I don’t bring baked goods and I don’t like it when others do either. Most co-workers I’ve may be well meaning, but they’re crappy cooks and bakers. Bringing in homemade foods reveals too much of myself to people I don’t want having that knowledge. Having to deal with other people’s homemade foods means having to talk too much about my food allergies, seem rude or stand-offish if I decline, and/or I have to eat some bad food that I don’t really want or need. Homemade foods at work = minefield IMHO.

  • http://profiles.google.com/sharmeen.islam Sharmeen Islam

    the previous big publishing i worked at someone in the dept organized Baked Fridays to replace Casual Fridays.