In This Small Kitchen: Socks at a Dinner Party

Posted by on Friday Feb 15th, 2013 | Print

When I host, I don’t wear shoes.

On a regular evening, I don’t wear shoes around the apartment. In fact, I kick off my shoes even before I shed my coat. Socks or L.L. Bean slippers are the footwear uniform around here in the winter. So when friends come over, I feel like a more natural, relaxed host if I don’t bother with shoes at all.

Of course the same standards don’t apply to the outfit. No one sees me in my sweats. I pick out a reasonably comfy but good-looking outfit, one I wouldn’t be devastated to see get a stain. I layer a t-shirt under my sweater (it gets hot by the stove!).

And I pick out nice-looking socks in a pretty color, without any holes.

I’d love to hear if you think my dinner party sock-wearing is a faux pas. Should I be hosting in heels?

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Dinner Party Socks

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  • karenb

    around here (toronto, but i’ve noticed it in most snowy places), everyone takes their shoes off when they enter a house, even if it’s a fancy dress party.

    • Lindsay

      Same here! I live in Edmonton. People only wear shoes in the house if it’s something the owners already do, but it’s not very common, maybe because of the carpet?

      • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

        Interesting to hear it’s practically a Canadian custom…I sort of wish everyone would take off their shoes, but I hesitate to ask. But when you have obviously sopping wet feet…

  • http://www.facebook.com/rapoulson Rebecca Poulson

    Ha! This cracks me up, buying a new pair of striped Smartsocks is a key part of preparing for any winter event at my house!

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      I hope you match those stripes to every outfit!

  • irisvk

    Haha it’s your home, you can host however you like! I guess that’s what is subconsciously running through my head when I host in a nice dress paired with my fuzzy slippers by accident :)

  • http://www.hiddenfruitsandveggies.com/ Kelly @Hidden Fruits & Veggies

    I haaate wearing shoes and encourage everyone to take them off as soon as they’re in the door! It’s pretty easy in Michigan because 9 times out of 10 it’s either snowy or muddy out and everyone has dirty shoes.

    • http://www.facebook.com/suzan.katzir Suzan Katzir

      Ditto that in Maine. We all pad around in our socks or slippers.

      • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

        I do that kind of naturally - take off my shoes - and receive the exact same “are you nuts?” look.

    • http://www.facebook.com/marion.bregier Marion Brégier

      It’s the same at my house ! Regular guests know I’d rather have them tke their shoes off anyway, so that everyone is comfy and my floors stay cleaner. I’d rather cook than clean up afterwards. (And we don’t even have the snow excuse most of the time)

  • http://aweekfromthursday.com/ heidi

    I always think it’s so glamorous when people (ahem, characters) like Betty Draper wear heels in the kitchen. But let’s get real, that’s not happening. I’m all for bare feet.

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      Yes! Heels in the kitchen is a fab look, but easier said than done. I second your bare feet.

  • Katie Rose

    I do this too! I also like it when my guests take their shoes off. Everyone just feels more relaxed and comfortable. And then they can curl up on the couch after dinner like they would in their own home.

  • Teach3

    I get a pedi and go barefoot!

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      Love this!

  • cec

    I ask everyone to take their shoes off. Personally I prefer slippers and I am not too keen on sitting in a room full of socked feet. So I do encourage slippers to be worn.

  • http://twitter.com/mmurphydc Meg

    I’m always barefoot at home, but we live in an old building with an overzealous heating system. (It’s 31 outside and we have t-shirts on.) Same goes for hosting, but for some reason I feel weird having socks on when having guests over. My toes need to be free!

    • http://www.biggirlssmallkitchen.com/ BGSK

      “Overzealous” describes our heating system perfectly and also provides a totally legit reason to go barefoot.

  • HeatherFlynn

    We always take our shoes off before entering our house but haven’t figured out how to encourage our guests to do the same.

  • Erin

    I’ve never been a slipper-wearer, per se. It’s not that I don’t like them, it’s more that my family didn’t wear them growing up and I never got in the habit. But hosting a dinner party in socks? Cheers! (I try hard to remember to wear cute socks before heading to other peoples’ homes…just in case they have a socks-only rule, I don’t want any toes poking through!).